2023 Movie Round-Up!! Part 3

Oh hello!

Since I appear to finally be moved to write my long-overdue annual round-up from the now-distant 2023, let's economize on that special special combination of no shame and semi-adequate amounts of time and ability to concentrate and wrap this up in a messy little bow with Part 3: The Best Movies!

The surprisingly extensive highest-rated movies I watched in 2023 were:

Glass Onion: A Knives Out Mystery (2022)

The Banshees of Inisherin (2022)

Emily the Criminal (2022)

Spirited Away (2001)***

Norma Rae (1979)

Persona (1966)***

Late Spring (1949)

Early Summer (1951)

Rome, Open City (1945)

Broadcast News (1987)

Die Hard (1988)***

The Lego Movie (2014)***

Palm Springs (2020)***

Autumn Sonata (1978)

Le Samouraï (1967)***

Wish Dragon (2021)

Stutz (2022)

Plus One (2019)

Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse (2023)

Dancing with the Birds (2019)***

Barbie (2023)

Running with Speed (2023)

The Lego Movie (2014)***

What a gift that there were so many 5-rated movies in one year!

It seems that I'll need to apply the same approach I used in my Part 2 post, given that I don't have the same clarity and intensity of memory for each of these movies, which may in and of itself be a way in which the most positively impactful movies rise to the top.

I'll start by acknowledging the multiple beloved movies that were rewatches: Miyazaki's "Spirited Away", Bergman's "Persona", "Die Hard", "The Lego Movie", "Palm Springs", the French New Wave jewel "Le Samouraï", "Dancing with the Birds", and "The Lego Movie" again. Each of these films are such treasures in their own right, and I'm so grateful to have revisited them (although that re-visitation was disconcertingly yet fittingly unintentional with "Persona").  Even within that relatively crowded field, some of my most deeply beloved movies that I've returned to over and over again stand out for me, like "The Lego Movie" and "Dancing with the Birds".  So many of those rewatched movies are so freaking fun, in addition to having a lovely depth and deftness of execution.  

On the other hand, while not exactly fun, Jean-Pierre Melville's "Le Samouraï" was such a rich text I wrote extensive notes on it for a post that unfortunately has yet to materialize.  And on that note, I similarly responded to watching "Broadcast News" for the first time. I still hope to sort through all my thoughts and feelings in a post.  The notes are still on hand for both of those movies, so maybe one day they'll come to fruition.

As you can see, the movies I watched for the first time in this year's top movies list are all over the map in terms of release date.  I went through phases in 2023 where I wanted to devour as many classics and major cultural touchstones as I could, like "Norma Rae", "Autumn Sonata", and "Rome, Open City".  Then I had other phases where I was on the hunt for child-friendly movies that might be values-consistent for our family, like with "Wish Dragon" and "Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse".  And then there were one or two times where I fell down a little rabbit hole with a single artist, like with Yasujirō Ozu's "Late Spring" and "Early Summer".

So how to decide which, of all of these wonderful movies, is 2023's favorite?

To make this choice, I'm going with my gut, which has continued to hold deep warmth and love for this movie.  I'm also guided by the fact that this film has continued to reveal new layers and themes upon a second glance, and I therefore expect to return to it many times in the future.  It's funny, inventive, thoughtful, and ultimately hopeful.  It's also about a theme that, now that I think about it, always manages to keep a strong hold on me: the nature of love and what love looks like in practice.

My favorite move in 2023 is therefore, at long last:

With that, let's get on with 2025.  With gusto.

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2023 Movie Round-Up!! Part 2 (lol)

Hey friends,

Long ago yet still managing to be late, I announced I would be doing the year-end round-up post a little differently.  Instead of the usual massive round-up post, I planned to write it in three installments:

• Part 1: Overview
  
• Part 2: The Worst Movies
• Part 3: The Best Movies

A hilariously long duration later, I'm BACK to actually finish what I started.  And by finish, I mean write part 2 of 3.

So TONIGHT ONLY (or whatever time of day it is when you're reading this), let's review the worst movies I watched over a year ago.... to whatever extent I remember them at this point!!!

Seriously though I will be making modifications to this usual format by only highlighting the lowest-scored movies that I have retained animus for over a year later AND for which I actually remember the reasons I didn't like them.  Which means I will not remotely be highlighting all of them.

That sad, sad list includes:

For being a bafflingly beloved romcom despite being about 
two people who don't actually seem to even like each other:
Notting Hill (1999)

For still making my heart hurt over how Katharine Hepburn's character
was treated in this movie when her character was truly a badass,
seriously what the hell:
Woman of the Year (1942)

For making me feel icky and confused while watching a Studio Ghibli movie:
From Up on Poppy Hill (2011)

For having no business being so boring given its lovely, inspiring subject:
Audrey (2020)

For not remotely being "The Lego Movie" (2014) despite capitalizing
on millennial nostalgia and featuring Charlie Day:
The Super Mario Bros. Movie (2023)

For just being bad (lol),
including but not limited to feeling like the whole movie was just the
first costumed off-book run-through of a bad, bad script:
Best. Christmas. Ever! (2023)

I'm facing a bit of a dilemma here, because some of the movies that still provoke the strongest negative reactions in me are not the lowest-scored movies.  The only movies on the ignominious list above that received a 1 are "Notting Hill" and "Best. Christmas. Ever!", with the remaining films all being scored a 2.  

It admittedly doesn't feel right to name a movie worst movie of the year when others earned lower scores, but the 2-rated movies on this list are there precisely because they had really promising elements that the movies as a whole betrayed.  It shouldn't be possible to make a boring movie about Audrey Hepburn.  No one--least of all Spencer Tracy--should be mean to Katharine Hepburn!  Studio Ghibli should be beautiful, poignant, cosy, and NOT about romantic love between possible half-siblings (??????????). 

Alternatively, I'm not all that surprised that the year's 1-rated movies were bad.  I basically watched "Best. Christmas. Ever!" explicitly because it looked ridiculously bad, so I certainly don't have terribly strong feelings that it delivered.  And am I surprised that a '90's-era romcom was obtuse about relationship dynamics?  Not exactly. 

There's just something I can't look past in those movies that held so much potential and squandered it.

So, as a perhaps weird call, 2023's most maligned movie was:

The Super Mario Bros. Movie (2023)

I know this film isn't responsible for my deep, protective love toward Charlie Day and my assumption that it would be comparable to "The Lego Movie", but I feel deeply, nauseatingly betrayed all the same.  Good lord this movie was tedious and uninspired.

Next up: The extra special long overdue Part 3, hopefully before 2026!

Oh and also, the round-up for 2024, and maybe some chats about the movies I've already seen this year.

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Closing 2024: Resolutions Edition

Hi team,

2024 was a lot.

I don't know where to begin in trying to distill down everything this past year held.  Which probably means this is a valuable opportunity to take some time just to reflect on its events.

Personally, there was so much good in this year, including a lot of growth.  It is such an awe-inspiring delight to see my kids grow and for their personalities to emerge more and more.  I'm so proud of how our family is evolving, and I'm so grateful for the partnership I have with my husband.  My work, as always, is really rewarding.  Since our youngest child finally enrolled in daycare midway through the year, I've re-expanded my hours at work in a way that still feels sustainable, in part because I got to feel what it's like to do less than the maximum I'm capable of professionally for some time.  Our family got to take an absolutely incredible trip abroad, and I got to travel to see some of my favorite people.  It's been a really rich, fruitful year.

Globally, it's hard to feel anything other than heaviness.  I've been wrestling with this dichotomy between the micro and macro levels of my life, and I still don't really know how to hold it all at the same time, how to make sense of how one very different little world is nestled within the other.

This seems like as good an opening as any to look back at the resolutions I made for 2024, and to set goals for the new year.  My resolutions last year were:

1. Prioritize the things that make savoring life possible.

2. Watch at least 30 movies.

1. Prioritize the things that make savoring life possible.

My two-part version of what might be the most cringily-worded resolution I've ever made was to a) stay committed to recovery and self-care stuff, and b) prioritize my hobbies.  In all honesty, for the first half of the year, this was pretty much impossible.  Lack of childcare is just a crushingly immovable barrier for these kinds of endeavors, and unfortunately it took months longer than expected for a place to become available for our second child at the daycare our first child attends.

Once that was in place, it definitely made a lot of day-to-day life and work stuff easier, but it still wasn't enough for there to be space for any "bonus" stuff.  Recognizing that reality is what finally pushed me to find and commit to having a babysitter come for a few hours every weekend, long after a neighbor with young children recommended doing so.  Having guilt-free free time--self-determination time that doesn't come at the cost of my partner doing double duty for the duration--has made a huge difference in my overall mental health and the range of things I'm able to do on a semi-regular basis.  It's been such a life-changing gift.

And so, in the past 6 months or so, I've actually made significant progress toward this goal.  I've gone to see movies, met up with friends, started attending a book club with other parents in our neighborhood, read for fun, had quality time with Husband, and had some more time for writing.  I've also finally taken meaningful steps in deepening my recovery work and committed to doing that regularly, which feels so good.  There are still additional steps I want to take in that domain, but it's a huge relief, honestly, to finally start breaking through the emotional log jam that was stymieing my progress.

While I knew I desperately needed to fulfill this resolution when I made it, I wasn't confident I would actually be able to.  I'm so grateful to be able to say that I really did succeed with this resolution.  My life feels measurably brighter because of it--there have been many days when I've noticed that my ambient emotional state is just content, happy.  

Recently I've been recognizing that so much of that is a consequence of discipline; quiet, consistent, reasonably flexible yet generally unwavering commitment to doing what needs to be done, over and over.  Just as this is why there are flowers and wildlife to watch in my backyard, it's why I feel emotionally healthier now than I did just a few years ago.  It's why my kids are growing in all sorts of beautiful ways and my marriage is strong.  I'm just so genuinely grateful to feel the benefit of this routine, committed labor, and to know that that felt benefit is proof of not only my ability to improve my own life but also my interconnectedness with the greater world.

2. Watch at least 30 movies.

I'm pretty chagrined to say I *just* barely hit this target.  I saw some great movies this year, but I definitely did not have the stamina or time to watch one every week.  I'm glad I had the self-attunement and reality contact needed to set a movie-watching goal that was actually achievable, because I would have felt so crappy if I'd insisted on the usual 52 movies resolution and either fell way short or stressed myself out over something so ultimately arbitrary.  I do hope I'll be able to reinstate the one-movie-a-week goal at some point in the next few years, but I don't think that's going to happen soon.

I also didn't write nearly as much as I'd hoped.  In a way, the dramatic shift from writing the most posts I'd ever written in 2023 to the least in 2024 stings way more than the reduced number of movies I watched.  I never even finished writing the 2024 round-up post!  Even as I plan to retain the same movie-watching goal for the new year, I hope to write more in 2025.

So let's talk about goals for this year.

My resolutions for 2025 are:

1. Do sustainable, consistent, values-congruent things with my free time.

This includes doing things I enjoy, like building local friendships, connecting with long-distance friends, reading, writing, doing photography stuff, baking and cooking, taking walks, taking care of plants and animals, decorating our home, and I really do want to start playing VR again because I miss my cute minigolf game!  It also includes doing self-care and recovery work, including reading, attending meetings, meeting with other people involved in recovery, and hopefully beefing up my recovery work through further connecting with other people also involved in recovery.

Finally, I also want to take my own advice by participating in regular activism centered on the things I care most about using a collaborative approach and, where possible, continuing to engage in mutual aid.

Taken altogether, I know fulfilling this resolution will actively contribute to my overall wellbeing.

2. Watch at least 30 movies, and write at least 15 posts.

I think I would feel really good about meeting this resolution, which based on how this year went seems reasonable yet still like a bit of a reach.  Writing about movies is so grounding and enjoyable for me--I love being able to think deeply about what I've watched and share what I liked about them.  Doing even a little bit more of that would mean a lot to me.

And with that, as my oldest child busts into my office to blast me with my hair dryer (who knows why writing regularly is such a challenge??), I will sign off.

Happy New Year, dear friends.

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